Wiser and Wilder Retreat 2018-03-15T23:11:17+00:00

Find your Inner Crone, Create with your Mother and Dance with your Maiden 


Wiser and Wilder Weekend Retreat



Do you yearn to be in a circle with other visionary women where you can be fully yourself and be heard, seen and felt?



October 19-22  Oregon Coast- Manzanita

Women need to be in circles with other women, witnessing them, their raw soul, their unfolding, true voice and ultimate empowerment.

You’ve had success on your path and now you feel called to go deeper, wider and step more fully into that next evolution of who you are and what you are meant to do!

This retreat is an opportunity to be with yourself in the fullest way, have time away from everything in your normal life. You know you need this!  We’ll create, share, listen, and rise above your self-doubts, fears or whatever is in your way.

Your vision is to be true to your heart and soul and you want to feel replenished, awesome and on track to do your real work that you are meant to do with no barriers.


~Sallena Pool, sallenapool.com/

~Marcia Chadly, creativelifecenter.org/

You will be in community in its purest form

Opening your voice
Growing your self-worth and confidence
Doing what only you can do- your dharma


What will we do together?

BE Wiser and Wilder:  be the true leader of yourself, your vision and your work in the world.

•  Access your own Wise Woman to give you insight, truth, clarity, direction. She knows who you are and what is most important to you. 

She will be found in the sand, the rocks or in the warmth of the fire and she will have guidance for you. She will be your partner for the weekend.

•  Call in your Wild Woman to be free, take risks, to let go of expectations, judgements and limitations.  She will have you doing some things you might never do on your own and shed light on the real you.

She lives in the ocean waves, sits in your tree and is the sparks in the fire! She laughs, is inane, sometimes inappropriate and all the time, a free spirit. 

We’ll be gathering at a large, beautiful house with a gorgeous ocean view and only a few steps to the beach.  

Imagine the sound of the surf, the salt air, and peacefulness of the sand. 

Some processes will happen on the beach and we’ll use the power of the ocean to support your growth.  The tide is such a beautiful metaphor of inner growth for women and our cycles.



The retreat begins on Thursday 5:00 and ends Sunday 2:00.  

Circle energy is our container! We’ll begin with a circle each time we meet throughout the weekend. This might include ahas from the last process, clarifying intentions, needs or question that have arisen. 

We’ll have lunch and dinner together as some of the best conversations happen over meals. Meals will be simple, healthy and offer many options.  I’ll provide part of the food and as a community you will all bring something. We’ll all pitch in to make it happen. You will provide your own breakfasts. There are grocery stores and cafes 5 minutes away. 

What you will take away 

•  Rejuvenation so you will feel ready to go into the world and touch more people. 
•  New energy for your Business Vision so you will have a sense of purpose and direction.
•  Clarity about your next steps so you will know exactly what you need to do next.
•  Re-alignment of your soul and spirit so you will feel in balance and alive.
•  Beautiful women’s community and lasting friendships so you can build a stronger tribe. 


This house has it’s own outside fire circle where we can sit together and connect through the fire’s energy.  Depending on the weather we may build a fire right on the beach at low tide. And there is also a wood stove in the living room. So lots of fire!

We’ll be creating ritual power tools from driftwood you find on the beach adding stones, shells, seaweed along with beads, paint, and embedding it with your affirmations, truth and power. A treasure for the rest of your life.



We’ll use creative processes and rituals to break through your stuck places and allow you to experience freedom, confidence and your true inner leader.

If you’re like most women, you get side-tracked by your own self-doubt, habits of hiding, fears and a myriad of other emotions.  

All these issues emerge again when you are wanting to step into a new level of your growth spiral. Wise and Wild Woman will be your mentor.


~Paula Nuspl, paulanusplinteriors.com

There’ll be private time to walk on the beach, meditate, write and have alone space.

In our community everyone will share their intentions for the weekend and we’ll create space for you to get what you need.

Through stories, symbols, and experiences you’ll have a chance to embody your authentic personal charisma and presence. 

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This amazing retreat helped me see how important it is to take time out from the daily workings of my business and connect with other women who truly understand the challenges and rewards of running your own business.  Kaya  has a remarkable ability to bring together really incredible people to create a powerful synergy and the momentum for change.  ~Elie Cole nourishingmedicine.com[/quote]




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Jocelyn Testimonial Photo

The retreat really opened my eyes to the fact that I am my business and that my personal baggage impacts my business. 

Through Kaya’s skilled facilitation and the small group experience I found that others were better at seeing and drawing out of me what I needed than I was able to do on my own. What a difference it has made!

~Jocelyn Muzak, mozakdesign.com[/quote]


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I can’t tell you enough about what a great weekend this was for me and I thank Kaya for putting together the Wiser and Wilder Woman’s Retreat. I learned all about vision and goals and how they work together and I connected at the soul level with wonderful women and I now have new women in my support network for my business going forward.
~Julee Hunt
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Included is:

  • 3 nights and 3 days of beautiful facilitation with Kaya Singer plus a surprise guest.
  • Meeting in a large beautiful upscale house in Manzanita, Oregon.
  • Miles of beach to walk on.
  • Fire circle right outside on the deck.
  • Gorgeous ocean views. Steps to the beach. 
  • Structured teaching time and free time to integrate.
  • Small Group of less than 14 women! Lots of one-on-one help.
  • Art supplies, tools and more for your deepening transformation.
  • A bed in this lovely house. Scroll down to read more about accommodation.


All this lovely juiciness for only  $1697

But wait!  Tada!
I’m offering an Early Bird Full Moon payment for anyone who registers now and before April 11th Full Moon in Libra which is all about about balance and harmony!  If you know you want to join us, this is the very best price!

A Full $300 right off the top- so full payment for you will be only $1397

$1397 one payment


or 3 monthly payments of $477

Cancellation Policy  

**This price includes your own bed in a shared room. 
Options:  Save $100 and sleep in a top bunk or hide-a-bed.    Pay $140 more and get your own private room. Couples can share a private room with no extra charge. First come first served as available. Contact me to arrange.


I’ve been running women’s empowerment groups since the 1980s. Yes, that makes me a young Crone now! Young in spirit and Ageless wisdom. I’ve faced my own fears, self-worth issues, lack of confidence, jealousy….the works, and now that I know myself and who I am, I love supporting other women to do the same. As a group of powerful women, we can make so much positive change.
Kaya Singer, author of “Wiser and Wilder.”







A few photos from 2016 retreat




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So, be bold and call on your Wild and Wise Woman. She will come.

I stood on the beach, feeling the sun on my face and the Goddess of the Sea speaking to me. My body was rooted into the sand and I wanted nothing else. It was one of those moments of being present 100 percent with my Wise and Wild Woman. I was aware of a lineage of ancestors, women upon women who had stood on this same spot in a timeless space of BEINGness. I thanked them for the strength and love they were gifting me. I saw a montage of their faces, filled with wrinkles of wisdom; eyes that could see beyond normal vision into the world of inner sight and calm knowing.

My body was a channel, a hollow bamboo for their energies to fill my soul and make me whole. My Wild Woman wanted to splash in every tide pool, write words in the sand, feel my toes in the water of the tide and call out the sounds of Earth and Sky. It was one of those moments where everything felt aligned with a vibration of love, flow, clarity and connectedness, all the ways I wish I could be everyday.

I know in my deepest truth that operating from this vibration is the most important part of manifesting my own life vision and purpose in the world. It’s my belief that if you can experience something like this even once, it becomes imprinted in your memory. Like me, you will yearn for it every hour of every day. It’s like a positive drug that provides the needed environment to grow YOU, who you are meant to be.

Kaya Singer. Wiser & Wilder: A Soulful Path for Visionary Women Entrepreneurs